Friday, August 23, 2013

What it takes to be Happy......



We, in our life span, can carry a lot of baggage of feelings and dreams. These feelings can be good or bad or these dreams may have been thoroughly fulfilled or partially fulfilled. We do also suffer from pain of loosing close ones. But life goes on with all the baggage. While we think of any existing or non existing thing our mind can actually  picture images, few thoughts, few dreams and so on related to the thing. Take an example when I say a black elephant and also tell you not to imagine actual look of the animal in your mind; I think many of you might have already seen the black  elephant right now inside your mind while reading it(Or surely may see that in back of your mind after the end of this line). Similarly few can also get some related thought, smell etc. of the black elephant and there is no limit of it.   This is one of the many ways the top floor of human body works. Likewise every word we say or hear has many dimensions in itself. What it takes to be Happy...... How much we are happy is directly proportional to the way our mind look at the things happening around us.


We spend our life in parts and in every part we prioritise our way of being happy. Let it be food and dryness for an infant to a good reputation, carrier and relationship for an adult. There are all kind of things which can be taken into parameter in calculation of happiness. It includes every small thing around us. Survival of fittest originates from the universal fight  of priority. Anyone who is assured that he will survive fittingly is happy as he knows that he has what he wants. Human race does have a nature of comparing among themselves with respect to their own priority. But they forget that ones priority always differs from others. So such comparisons cannot define happiness. The fittest is the happiest and the fittest is the one who knows how to drive himself when others are just bothered elsewhere.What it takes to be Happy...... Happiness comes from understanding the value of contentment.


To be continued......